When does a friendship go beyond that when you are married?

Sex, obviously, but when is that line crossed? What behavior? Emotion?When does a friendship go beyond that when you are married?
I don't know, but if you're asking the question, maybe you're already there?When does a friendship go beyond that when you are married?
In all honesty it should have been beyond that before you got married. That's why we have so many divorces today. People confuse friendship with love. You ought to read the singles and dating sight. But to answer your question if It hasn't gone beyond the friendship stage there are ways to tell.


1. You love to be around each other. It deosn't mean you get clingy


2. You love to confide in each other. Not necessarily everything


3.You love siitting together and holding each other and telling each other little things you wouldn't say to your best friend.


4. You love being out in public with each other showing the world who you chose as a love mate.


5. You enjoy a lot of the same things and enjoy doing them together


6. You respect each others decisions and don't try to force yours on the other person but work to come to an agreement when your choices are different


I could go on but that is some of the things you can think about
A married person's friendship has gone awry long before sex occurs. Why? Unless you are into sex with strangers, you have made that person a close friend...a best friend in some cases...an affair of the heart...sharing secrets, desires, and all things that should be shared with the spouse.......not a so called friend of the opposite sex.





You know things are destined to go south for the marriage, when a third-party friendship is hidden from the spouse. ';If a friend of a spouse cannot be friends to both, they are not a friend...they are a potential affair.';
You've cross the line when YOU THINK you've cross the line.


If you suspect that you have crossed the line, you probably have otherwise you wouldn't feel bad about something you've done with that person.





Its crossing the line when you feel........wrong....about your friendship.





It is very important to keep your distance when you have opposite sex friends.
a side from the obvious its really just a emotional connection you feel towards your spouse. a feeling of being one. When two people get married they usually share all their hopes, dreams, worries, and so on. Sure they can do that with another gal pal or dude but spouses do it on a more intimate level. when one is having a rough day the other knows just how to make them feel loved and relaxed. and there is always someone to talk to when you have something on your mind that you don't trust saying to any one else. They are your best friend, and lover.
Emotional cheating may sometimes be worse than sex because it means the minds have met and that can be more dangerous than the bodies meeting.





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It goes to far when you are putting yourself in the situation to ask a question like this. People always say that it just happened, but it does not. You have a choice to sit and think about what is important.
I would say, when you are physically stimulated by the thought or them or their presence. The same kind that everyone in the office knows by the way two people look at one another. Also, hiding your friendship.
trust me the line has all ready been crossed , sex or anything else..