I know its not right in Gods eyes but I want to see if it can work out first and I'm enaged to her. I'm having second thoughts.Is it better to live with a woman married or unmarried?
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
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I believe that everyone that contemplates marriage should live together for a spell first... even if you choose not to have sex, living together allows you to really see all of the facets of this person.
Dating allows people to put their best face on, their best foot forward, at some point you have to see people as they really are on a day to day basis.... and if then you still feel the love and attraction, then you know you might have found what you are looking for.
My wife is a staunch Catholic girl and even we lived together for 8 months before we married. (No sex either!)
We got to know each other, to learn from each other, to work out dumb little things, sort out squabbles and petty annoyances... all before the big day. It was such a special time.. It was kind of like playing house... each of us learning what it meant to be there for someone for the first time in our lives. That was so long ago but the experience only made the foundation that our marriage is built upon all the stronger...I love her more every day... soul-mates.
Marry her and you'll regret it the rest of your life.
If you must marry someone for the purposes of children, go to a third world country where the women will actually appreciate you. Marrying a western girl is worse than sticking your head in the microwave and cooking for 45 minutes.
Ask Her how she feels. In SOME cases it's ok. (like mine:)
We do it because: I am epileptic and have serious health problems sometimes.He has no insurance, and so I have a better chance just not being legally married. We are in our hearts. So, financial reasons for some. If no reasons...you have to ask yourself why? Is it because you think ';it'; will end. Or NOW your grown up. DONT loose a chance in life you deserve, and dont lead her on.Friendship is what its mainly about, if shes your best friend...your all good. If far from it, run.
married in the eyes of god
that s the right way
and that s what would make her happy
don t be scared ,don t have kids too soon wait a year or two,to see how things are going,so if you ever don t like her you can get a divorce.
I wouldn't move in with my guy until we had a wedding date set. However, there is no requirement to live with someone before you get married. What are you going to do if she says no before the wedding? End the engagement?
If you live with her you might figure out if you want to marry her or not.
If you marry in SOME countries there are tax breaks, but also the risk of divorce. It isnt a black and white question.
They sleep the same way married or not.
Wait until you're married. :)
if your having second thoughts dont get married
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