What's up with a 34 year old never-married woman?

I know that's a bit unusual. Is there likely something hidden there that I can't see on the surface? Or is it likely just coincidence? I understand some women are real into their careers and stuff, but this gal almost broadcasts she's looking for a husband. Is there likely some hidden baggage there at 34 years old?What's up with a 34 year old never-married woman?
NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS...





as I met my wife when she was 45, I am 30....





She was NOT a COUGAR..... she was a LADY who wanted to be treated AS SUCH.........A LADY....





we've been married... 11 yrs now... age makes no difference either!What's up with a 34 year old never-married woman?
I wonder if you're talking about my older sis. In her case, she trusted a man who claimed he would marry her when she was barely 20. He turned out to be a monster who took advantage of her and used racism as a justification.


She didn't finish college because she was a perfectionist who couldn't stand to get a C.


She generally has a bad sense of how much time is passing and is therefore always late.


She's not much better with money.


Sure, you can call this baggage and some of it may turn off a potential suitor.


**** happens in life. You shouldn't judge someone by the obvious. If you're not sure you are what this person is looking for, have enough respect for her not to waste her time. She obviously can handle that on her own.
Hmmm, I'd ask for MORE DETAILS, because THERE ARE MANY MANY WOMEN, who at that age are not married...





She could be PICKY about who or what she wants in a man.... or a female partner...





She may be a HIGH MAINTENANCE WOMAN, looking for a Financially Solid Secure man to have for a mate..





Does NOT mean she has ANY NEGATIVE BAGGAGE...





I'm a 46 yr old Single Mom, SINGLE BY CHOICE!!!! I have been dating a man, for the past 3 yrs, but we are in NO Hurry to get married, as we like our arrangement...





Why not ask her, what type of man she is looking for, if your interested, ask her out, or Wish her well with her search or set her up with one of your friends...





REMEMBER: some women, do seek men, but In Real, they Like Women company... she could be hiding the fact that she is A Lesbian or Bi Sexual...





You never know do you?
I didn't marry until I was 40 years old. Yes, I was a career woman, but I did date. In fact, I had proposals from four men by the time I was age 34--and two returned to me a few years later to propose again whining about how no one had treated them better than I had.





I didn't want to marry a man that was a jailbird, abusive, controlling, into porn, uneducated, who cheated his employer, who couldn't hold a job, was socially inept or emotionally immature, but those were the kind of guys that I met. This made it very easy for me to choose a career over marriage.





I don't think my standards were too high. Theirs were too low. I'd rather be single all my life than to marry someone who didn't have a desire to make a good life the honest way. I wasn't about to sentence myself to a life of misery and regrets.





I finally met the perfect man for me in church, and we couldn't be happier. I'm so glad I didn't give in to personal insecurities and peer pressure.
No not at all. On the contrary do you want some 34 year old woman with kids, marriage etc that kind of baggage? No if she is for you then make it happen. My cousin just got married and she was 2 and still a virgin. I to waited for marriage at age 23 and I was a virgin!!! So no this is not weird!!
hey, i am 34 and never married. and find that it is not unusual. i have not met a man up to my standards. however, i am not actively seeking a husband either. i think i am offended by you question.
yup, they've been playing the i'm too good for any guy card.. that now they want a baby cause ALL of thier friends have one, and time is a running out...
I don't know...how old are you? What's your story? You divorced and think that people that try to marry the right person to avoid that must be cuckoo?
Maybe because she wants to settle down, and not just settle.


Nothing wrong with it.





Is there a law that says if youre a woman you must be married by 30??
I don't think it's reasonable to infer anything major about her based on her age and marital status.
Maybe she just hasn't found the right guy yet. Don't assume anything about her based on the fact that she isn't married yet. 34 isn't that old to be unmarried anyway.
Maybe she's a psycho. The guys get wise on the second or third date and take off.
Maybe she just hasn't found the person she wants to spend the rest of her life with.
She's most likely set in her ways and very picky.
Maybe she hasn't gotten married yet because the only men she meets are jerks like you.
I applaud her for being pick and waiting on the right person. I wish I had done that.
HOW OLD ARE YOU? What is YOUR BAGGAGE?





Let her live her life, %26amp; you live yours...





I bet she is Happy with her life... are you happy with yours? Doesn't sound like it!!!!
SHE HAS HER RIGHT TO BE PICKY...





WHY WOULD SHE JUST SETTLE FOR A LOSER?





GOOD FOR HER!!!!!!
she wants to settle down.
I can check her out and get back to you. Tell her to call....
There could be probabilities, She could be controlling in her date, or demand what men give her, Men want alot of attention, space, and more of all love. Women a lot of time push themselves onto a man. This can speed up the process of a break up or a divorce. This is my tip on successful dating or marriage:





1. Have sex once a night, first foreplay, then intercourse





2. Space between both husband and wife, Minimum of 30 mins to 1 hour a day upon arrival at home. Remember, 24 hours in a day, 8 hours to work, 8 hours to sleep, 7 hours left for anything.





3. Have sex at night only during work days, then twice on the weekends.





4. On a day off from lovemaking, hang out with your friends, Men hang out with men, women hangs out with women. for one night.





5. This is a recipe for a long relationship. you will find that both couples will be so glad to see each other.
That's almost like asking, ';Is there something wrong with a woman at 34 who is divorced and looking for love? Not everyone jumps into things. Everyone is different and has different goals and achievements they want to accomplish and obviously starting a family was at the end of her list. Why don't you go out with her and find out. You are obviously interested if you are asking the question
my guess is that she seems nice on the surface, but when you get to know her you will learn she's a bit of a nut-job.. I bet she's dated guys and then scared them away by being overly clingy or neurotic..
i can't hear you. her clock is ticking so loud my ears hurt.