Saturday, July 31, 2010

Should a married man talk about this to his female coworker?

He told me his daughter sleeps with he %26amp; his wife evey night, insinuating that he doesn't have sex enough, he told me he didn't give his wife a birthday card or anniversary card and how pissed his wife was and he told me when he sang at this party we were all at that he was just singing for me yet his wife was there. I don't know his wife. He isn't in a band or anything. Am I jumping to the wrong conclusions about him? Or is he a jerk I should stay away from? Other than this, he is a very nice guy. Thanks.Should a married man talk about this to his female coworker?
He's a jerk and you should stay away from him. He is trying to set you up for an affair, or one night stand, by telling you how bad his wife treats him and that the song he sang was just for you. His wife is probably nothing like he portrays her and if she is he should get a divorce and not disrespect her by talking about her. As you get older you'll hear a variation of this story from lots of married men.Should a married man talk about this to his female coworker?
It sounds like he's having some family problems and doesn't know who to talk to. Doesn't necessarily mean he has a crush on you or anything (unless he's flirting), he probably just needs some support. You could try talking to him and letting him know that you like being friends with him and think he's a really nice guy, but that you're a bit concerned about him. Tell him you think he seems a bit too stressed out, and ask if he's considered counselling. You might have to (gently and tactfully) let him know that although you like his company, you don't feel comfortable when he discusses his relationship problems with you. It's a tricky situation, but do what you need to do. I'm sure you'll find an effective way to deal with it. Good luck!
How can you say he's a nice guy? When he implies to you that he's not getting enough sex from his wife and that they aren't getting along. I'd stay away from this guy he only sounds like trouble.
i think you should tell him to stop complaining to you and if he has problems he should do something about them and not go around telling people about it!!!
This guy is a real mess and needs professional help. Keep some serious distance.
hell no. he is a freak for doing that. stay away from that psycopath.
Men are pigs. Period!
Next time he says anything about his marriage I think you need to suggest to him that he and his wife should go to marriage counseling. I think he wants you to feel sorry for him. Telling you he sang the song for you at the party was creepy. Not buying his wife a birthday or anniversary card tells me is an inconsiderate pig. He should spend more time working on his marriage than airing his dirty laundry.

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